Harriet: I will never understand why men just ‘disappear’ after a few dates. You know, those guys who you’ve been seeing for a couple of weeks and who then just vanish into thin air, never to be heard from again. How hard is it to send a text, “Hey, it was great to meet you and I did have a great time, but I think we’d be better as friends.” We all know what that means, but at least he’s let you go without you wondering whether you should send him another text to check if he got the last one.
“No one likes a neganator,” says single 40-something Ari (not his real name). This comes up a lot in online dating. “If your profile leads with the things you hate about men or what has frustrated you about online dating—before you even mentioned your positive qualities, you won’t make the cut even for a first date,” says dating coach Hoffman. Another way people express negativity is by speaking ill of others. “There’s no one less attractive in any given room than the person who feels the need to put others down,” Freeby says.

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I have to say to this group of commenters in general, it's so not true that women don't work on themselves. First off, women are held to such a damagingly high standard of appearance--a level men would never bother to ascribe to themselves. The average guy has no idea how much work it takes women to look "presentable" by society's standards, let alone to be considered a prime choice in attraction from this "evolutionary" standpoint we're hearing so much about these days. Men really seem to want women to all look like 20 year old supermodels or strippers. Not only that, they seem to want women to look that way without *any* effort at all. The average woman next door seems to not be good enough for many men to actually have a relationship with, even if the guy is well past his forties. Read the article "Why I hate beauty", written by a man on this very site, it examines this phenomenon somewhat. So not only are average women not good enough, the desirable supermodel (or stripper) woman also has to be "submissive" enough to the man (really, no adult should be expected to submit as a way of life, just to make someone else feel good), be bubbly all the time, be servile, nonthreatening, not too smart, and do most (if not all) the housework, even if she also works. Ironically, though, if a woman has supported herself and saved up a good net worth, and suggests going dutch on dates because she doesn't believe in using men as cash machines--is she valued by men for that? Heck no. She's seen as threatening, and probably labeled a man-hating "feminazi", which is wrong for so many reasons. If you men want to avoid getting screwed in divorce, take responsibility for your life and draw up a strong pre-nup before you bind yourself legally to another person. If you're planning to marry a woman who's a user and expects men to pay her way through life, first ask yourself whether she's really the person you want to marry. And consider you may have to move away from the fantasy of landing a woman who looks like a 20 year old supermodel or stripper; women are about so much more than that. They're people. And no, I'm not a bitter, lonely feminazi, either. I'm a very attractive, *feminist* woman with lots of money I earned and saved entirely on my own with no help from anyone, who's also in a happy domestic partnership. When we marry, there'll be a prenup first, so if things don't happen to work out, we each can leave with what we came with and split the mutual stuff. Speak up for yourselves; don't expect women to look like supermodels and to simply turn their autonomy over to you; don't support a romantic partner financially; and get over seeing women who try to treat men like human beings as threatening (if you do).

It is increasingly common today, however, with new generations and in a growing number of countries, to frame the work-life balance issue as a social problem rather than a gender problem. With the advent of a changing workplace, the increased participation of women in the labor force, an increasing number of men who are picking up their share of parenting and housework, [50] and more governments and industries committing themselves to achieving gender equality, the question of whether or not, or when to start a family is slowly being recognized as an issue that touches (or should touch) both genders.

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Ultimately, I was one of the ones who decided to "opt out", as it was my only chance at rebuilding a sense of self-worth. Even if I'm not valuable to others, if I can do enough of what I enjoy I might be able to make my life into something I desire. I think I'll still always want to be an husband and father, but I've stopped letting my desire for what I can't have blind me to what I can have.
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He'll also do "couples things" with you, like going to Whole Foods or putting Ikea furniture together—or even, dare I say, cuddling. And sometimes he'll drop everything to spend time with you. But whenever he feels too close to the cusp of a real relationship, he'll ignore texts and phone calls, or blow off get-togethers, hinting about how busy he is at work.

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Jump up ^ Bibi van der Zee (24 January 2009). "Play by the Rules". The Guardian. Retrieved 2010-12-08. Instead, he seemed to assume it was because I was busy, popular, and had better things to do. Which seemed to make him keener. When we went on dates, I would always be the one to leave. To my astonishment, he often took that as a cue to ask me out again.
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“No one likes a neganator,” says single 40-something Ari (not his real name). This comes up a lot in online dating. “If your profile leads with the things you hate about men or what has frustrated you about online dating—before you even mentioned your positive qualities, you won’t make the cut even for a first date,” says dating coach Hoffman. Another way people express negativity is by speaking ill of others. “There’s no one less attractive in any given room than the person who feels the need to put others down,” Freeby says.
I have to say to this group of commenters in general, it's so not true that women don't work on themselves. First off, women are held to such a damagingly high standard of appearance--a level men would never bother to ascribe to themselves. The average guy has no idea how much work it takes women to look "presentable" by society's standards, let alone to be considered a prime choice in attraction from this "evolutionary" standpoint we're hearing so much about these days. Men really seem to want women to all look like 20 year old supermodels or strippers. Not only that, they seem to want women to look that way without *any* effort at all. The average woman next door seems to not be good enough for many men to actually have a relationship with, even if the guy is well past his forties. Read the article "Why I hate beauty", written by a man on this very site, it examines this phenomenon somewhat. So not only are average women not good enough, the desirable supermodel (or stripper) woman also has to be "submissive" enough to the man (really, no adult should be expected to submit as a way of life, just to make someone else feel good), be bubbly all the time, be servile, nonthreatening, not too smart, and do most (if not all) the housework, even if she also works. Ironically, though, if a woman has supported herself and saved up a good net worth, and suggests going dutch on dates because she doesn't believe in using men as cash machines--is she valued by men for that? Heck no. She's seen as threatening, and probably labeled a man-hating "feminazi", which is wrong for so many reasons. If you men want to avoid getting screwed in divorce, take responsibility for your life and draw up a strong pre-nup before you bind yourself legally to another person. If you're planning to marry a woman who's a user and expects men to pay her way through life, first ask yourself whether she's really the person you want to marry. And consider you may have to move away from the fantasy of landing a woman who looks like a 20 year old supermodel or stripper; women are about so much more than that. They're people. And no, I'm not a bitter, lonely feminazi, either. I'm a very attractive, *feminist* woman with lots of money I earned and saved entirely on my own with no help from anyone, who's also in a happy domestic partnership. When we marry, there'll be a prenup first, so if things don't happen to work out, we each can leave with what we came with and split the mutual stuff. Speak up for yourselves; don't expect women to look like supermodels and to simply turn their autonomy over to you; don't support a romantic partner financially; and get over seeing women who try to treat men like human beings as threatening (if you do).
10. American men like to date around. The dating culture involves trying out many different options at the same time. Call it the revolving door or hedging – there’s the idea in the American approach to dating that there’s always something better around the corner. With European men, if there’s mutual interest, they keep seeing that person and don’t keep hunting for better options simultaneously. The dynamic may or may not move into a serious relationship, but they are not trying to gather other options or back up plans in case it doesn’t.
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