You say women are selfish but you can't judge all women.Every woman is unique and conducts herself differently. I think you just met the wrong type of women and you shouldn't give up. Keep an open mind & an open HEART. I did give up on finding true love because I had to come to a realization that Love was just a fantasy I saw on Cinderella Disney Fairytale on TV as a young child. Im not that naive innocent child that was sold the lies I saw.
Each year, November 11 has become an unofficial holiday[88] known as China's Singles' Day when singles are encouraged to make an extra effort to find a partner.[89] Worried parents of unmarried children often arrange dates for their offspring on this day as well as others.[89] Before the day approaches, thousands of college students and young workers post messages describing their plans for this day. In Arabic numerals, the day looks like "1111", that is, "like four single people standing together", and there was speculation that it originated in the late 1990s when college students celebrated being single with "a little self-mockery"[88] but a differing explanation dates it back to events in the Roman Empire.[88] For many, Singles' Day offers people a way to "demonstrate their stance on love and marriage.[88]
“I’m trying to go to lunch, not on an Indiana Jones adventure to unlock the secrets of some tombstone,” Freeby jokes. But he strikes a chord for a lot of men: “We like a challenge, but if a woman plays hard to get, it’s a deal breaker.” The availability of other women via online dating websites and apps makes it even more crucial that a woman not appear to be closed off, points out dating coach Bennett. Here’s the dumbest dating advice we’ve ever heard.
“No one likes to be talked down to or belittled,” Rami says. “If you’re into that, don’t expect him to stick around for long.” If the purpose of constructive criticism is to get a man to change something about himself, it’s wasted breath. “If you badger him about changing something, the one thing he’ll probably change is you.” It would be great if women could stop believing they can change men, observes psychotherapist Delboy. “Men can change and many of them may want to, but it’s a turn-off when someone is actively trying to turn them into someone they’re not.”

For men who have busy lives and busy careers, Elite Singles is a great options. This dating site is aimed directly at successful professionals looking for other successful singles who are not often found on traditional dating sites like OkCupid and Zoosk. Elite Singles also has a high success rate based on its "intelligent matching" and high quality users.
*BUT* if you want to have a real long term relationship, you have to have substance. Interests. Goals. A social circle. You need to put effort INTO your life. Players fiend the confidence that comes with real accomplishment. They don't worry about being exposed because they only need to keep up the charade long enough to get the girl into bed. Even if this takes a few weeks, by the time she figures out this cocky confidence is just a front he has already gotten all that he wants out of the exchange. Some idolize the player, while some deplore such behavior - and others, still, feel sorry for him - that he feels he's "cheated the system" when really he's cheating himself out of the benefits of more emotionally involved connections.
Agreed, women often cry when called sluts and ask why are men whom have sex with a lot of women are called studs? simple it is much more difficult for most men to get sex even with one woman let alone multiple women. Any decent looking woman can walk in a bar flirt with a guy and get sex. that's why they are looked down on when women have sex a lot.
Jump up ^ Elizabeth A. Armstrong; Laura Hamilton; Paula England (Summer 2010). "Is Hooking Up Bad For Young Women?". American Sociological Association. Retrieved 2010-12-13. Relationships are “greedy,” getting in the way of other things that young women want to be doing as adolescents and young adults, and they are often characterized by gender inequality—sometimes even violence.
Dating a guy from Scandinavia is a little different to dating guys from Europe, but when you’re looking for that special partner, someone who will see you as being on the same level, you’ll quickly come to love and appreciate these men from the north. They like to talk plainly and explain the situation, especially if they feel that something’s not going too well. A typical Scandinavian, whether he comes from Stockholm or Gothenburg, likes to be dated in an open and polite way, and in return he’ll always do his best to understand you. If you’re unable to find the right guy in this country, then perhaps you might like to think about dating someone from Norway, Iceland or Denmark.

1. European men aren’t just aiming to score. American men on the other hand, tend to be goal oriented, with the aim of getting laid. Perhaps this ‘score mentality’ is for bragging rights, perhaps it’s for validation so they can feel wanted and desired, or perhaps it’s a pure ego play. American men will rush to get you in bed as quick as possible, while European men don’t appear to have the same rush (or desperation).
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