Indian dating is heavily influenced by the custom of arranged marriages which require little dating, although there are strong indications that the institution is undergoing change, and that love marriages are becoming more accepted as India becomes more intertwined with the rest of the world. In the cities at least, it is becoming more accepted for two people to meet and try to find if there is compatibility.[citation needed]
3) Holding High Standards - yet other men continue to hold high standards for both themselves and their partners. They invest in their own attractiveness, value, and success. They also treat partners equitably according to their behavior, worth, and contributions to the relationship. These men further qualify and screen partners well, not selling themselves short for less than they deserve. This approach takes constant effort though—both in the man maintaining his own standards, and in his motivating and inspiring others to do so too. It also requires patience in searching for someone who can live up to those desired standards. However, these efforts are often met with a partner who is attracted to them, respectful, and attractive for them too. For more on that approach see here, here, here, and here.
If you are a boy, then expect that you will attract only girls. However, if you are a man (independent, knows your worth and value, has a strong moral compass, is considerate and an able communicator and doesn’t let insecurity dominate your psyche), then you should be dating a woman. And if you can’t spot the difference just yet, here are some pointers.
When asked about what a woman should say in an online dating message, the most popular way to break the ice is just saying hi. After that, try telling a man what you like about his profile or what you first noticed about him—that was the second most popular way to start chatting. And, believe it or not, talking about yourself was a popular option too. Most men listed telling them something about yourself as the third best way to get a conversation going.   
Yeah, well the truth is women always say they want a nice guy and a gentleman. When you give them that they always say your really sweet(means their bored and ready to cheat) today's woman always says I'm a strong independent woman and don't need a man. That's all fine and good but no guy having to deal with today's dating situation needs that thrown in our faces. Rejection kills, men are actually sensitive and we have our own unique needs but our needs and rights aren't important to women. We want love, romance happiness, chance to have a family and yes sex every once and a while. Women, men haven't changed we still want the same things we've always wanted.For me, I've had enough of being judged and punished for wanting to fall in love with your gender. I'm opting out. Would rather die than be single but forced to be red pill. Wish things could be different. Congratulations women, you get to be alone too.
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This is a big rant, I don't know what else to say. I have done #1 on a personal level. I really can't get into the whole PUA thing; I'm too real to bullshit people. I am #2 at heart; while I will bend over for certain things I will not be a pushover and always state how I feel about something. I am now and have always been at #3. This is further reinforced after my breakup with the ex. Now I am at the stage where I am moving into the #4 category. I do not want to go here. I want to stay at #3 but honestly it looks hopeless. The future looks incredibly bleak. People say: "What's meant to be will be", "Things happen for a reason", "This happened so you can become the person you will be". Who really knows if any of this stuff is true.
Talking about your ex is dangerous territory. It’s best to stay away from the conversation altogether. Your date will not be interested and it can make things feel awkward between you. If your date does bring up the subject, try to keep answers short (without appearing suspicious). Reassure her that your past is history and that you want to spend your time getting to know her instead.
So there is that tilt. To be provided for, not by money per se, but by being what they (feel and are told) they Deserve. It's a tough environment for BOTH sexes -- so the self-centeredness will only lead to conflict, due to the lack of Understanding. Even though it's one-sided for the guys having a significantly tougher road, it's Not Easy for women -- they don't care how it is with a guy because it's the "Me Me Me, You DESERVE" crowd feeding things.

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4.  European men are comfortable with women, which leads to respect for women. Perhaps this has to do with their upbringing, where it’s very normal for boys and girls to play and intermingle together. They grow up developing friendships with the opposite sex and in turn, develop more empathy and understanding of the opposite sex. In American culture, there is a clear segregation of the sexes, boys play with boys and do boy things and girls do the same. Then these boys grow up and are exposed to the opposite sex in an abrupt, often sexualized way.  The consequence of this is a lack of understanding of women, a lack of comfort and often, a lack of respect.
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