No, not all women but a lot of what these guys has said is true. When I was married I loved my wife. She was my world. I worked myself till I broke to provide for her happiness. I did this for ten years. Paid for our house,car,dogs,food and utilities. All I wanted was time with her and some attention,affection or a kind word. She expected everything but gave nothing. If I wanted to go out with her no, sex no, help around the house no. Got very sick this last Christmas with the flu and the present she gave me when I was too weak and dehydrated to get off the couch was cheating multiple times then divorcing me on new years. She lied to the judge saying she was afraid of my reaction to the divorce which got me kicked out of the house I paid for. She admitted to the judge that it wasn't true but the woman judge just said it's okay she was in an emotional state. I now live with my parents and have to rebuild my life from scratch. Saving for a crappy apartment or something lesser than what I worked for. All I wanted from the dating sites was to find proof that the type of women you described exist. Instead I got judged and rejected more times than I can count. I still want to find a woman and give everything another chance.But after going through what I went through I really don't deserve or want anymore pain from wanting to genuinely fall in love with them marry and have children of my own. For guys, things like this happen quite a lot now days. Very sad. I don't need to work on myself I know who I am and what I want. Maybe my only alternative is to find a woman over seas. Frustrating that I'm forced to be single when I don't want it and I can't find one woman from my country that sees my worth and has the courage to take a chance. This is why men in america are bitter,angry and don't trust. We dream of the movie type of romance and that's all we know because of societal conditioning. Women should research this and realize my gender really has less rights legally than women today. But they won't because who cares about a man's feeling or legal rights?
1. European men aren’t just aiming to score. American men on the other hand, tend to be goal oriented, with the aim of getting laid. Perhaps this ‘score mentality’ is for bragging rights, perhaps it’s for validation so they can feel wanted and desired, or perhaps it’s a pure ego play. American men will rush to get you in bed as quick as possible, while European men don’t appear to have the same rush (or desperation).
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